Hypnosis Explained: From Stage Shows To Life-Changing Transformation
- Zoe Blackbourn

- Nov 17
- 15 min read
What if I told you that the most powerful work you'll ever do happens when you close your eyes - so you can finally open them internally?
Let's be honest. When most people hear "hypnosis," they picture one of two things: either someone clucking like a chicken on stage while an audience roars with laughter, or a swinging pocket watch with a mysterious voice saying, "You're getting very sleepy..."
And I get it. That's what we've been shown. That's the version that made it into films, TV shows, and viral videos.
But what if I told you that real hypnosis - therapeutic hypnosis - is nothing like that?
What if the stage show version is actually the furthest thing from the profound, life-changing work that happens when you access your subconscious mind?
Here's the truth: hypnosis isn't about losing control. It's about finally gaining it.
It's about closing your eyes to the outside world so you can open them internally - to see the beliefs, patterns, and memories that have been running your life on autopilot. And once you see them? You can change them.
Let me take you on a journey. From the misconceptions to the science. From the history to the extraordinary possibilities. And by the end, you might just find yourself thinking: "I want to experience this for myself."
What Hypnosis Actually Is (And Isn't)
Let's clear up the confusion right away.
Hypnosis is NOT:
Mind control
Sleep or unconsciousness
Something that only works on "weak-minded" people
Losing control of your thoughts or actions
Someone making you do things against your will
Magic or mystical powers
Hypnosis IS:
A naturally occurring state of focused awareness
Deep relaxation combined with heightened suggestibility
Direct access to your subconscious mind
A therapeutic tool for transforming beliefs and behaviours
Something you experience multiple times a day without realizing it
Completely safe, natural, and empowering

Think about the last time you were so absorbed in a book or film that you didn't hear someone calling your name. Or when you were driving and suddenly "woke up" at your destination without remembering the journey. That's hypnosis. That focused, absorbed state where your conscious mind steps aside and something deeper takes over.
Therapeutic hypnosis simply harnesses that natural state - intentionally, safely, with guidance - to help you access the part of your mind where real, lasting change happens.
A Brief History: Hypnosis Through The Ages
Hypnosis isn't some new-age trend. It's been around for thousands of years, just under different names.
Ancient Egyptians had "sleep temples" where priests would use trance-like states for healing. Greek and Roman physicians used similar techniques. Indigenous cultures worldwide have practiced trance rituals for centuries.

But the modern understanding of hypnosis really took shape in the 1700s with Franz Mesmer (yes, where we get the word "mesmerize"). Although his theories were later disproven, he sparked interest in the power of suggestion and altered states of consciousness.
Fast forward to the 1900s, and hypnosis began to be recognized as a legitimate therapeutic tool. Pioneers like Dave Elman revolutionized medical hypnosis, teaching doctors and dentists how to use quick induction techniques for pain management and surgery. His work proved that hypnosis didn't need to take hours - it could happen in minutes.
Gil Boyne took it further, developing powerful therapeutic techniques that addressed deep emotional and psychological issues. He trained thousands of hypnotherapists and demonstrated that hypnosis could transform lives, not just manage symptoms.
And then there's Marisa Peer - my own teacher and one of the most renowned hypnotherapists in the world. She developed Rapid Transformational Therapy, combining the best of hypnotherapy with neuroscience, psychotherapy, and cognitive behavioural techniques. Her approach has helped millions worldwide overcome everything from anxiety and depression to physical ailments and limiting beliefs.
These experts didn't just practice hypnosis. They proved its power. They showed the world that when you access the subconscious mind - the place where 95% of your thoughts, beliefs, and behaviours originate - you can create profound, rapid, lasting transformation.
How Hypnosis Actually Works: The Science Behind The Magic
Your mind operates on two levels: the conscious and the subconscious.
Your conscious mind is the part you're using right now to read these words. It's logical, analytical, critical. It's the voice that says, "I want to change," "I know I shouldn't feel this way," "I need to be more confident."
Your subconscious mind is the vast library beneath. It holds every memory, every experience, every belief you've ever formed. It controls your automatic responses, your emotions, your habits. It's the part that makes your heart beat, your lungs breathe, and your body heal without you thinking about it.
Here's the problem: your conscious mind might want change, but your subconscious mind is running the show based on old programming.
Maybe at age 7, a teacher compared you to someone else and you unconsciously decided, "I'm not good enough." That belief got filed away in your subconscious. And now, decades later, you're still operating from that belief - self-sabotaging, playing small, avoiding opportunities - and you don't even know why.
This is where hypnosis becomes revolutionary.
In the hypnotic state, your critical, analytical conscious mind steps aside. It stops filtering and judging and defending. Your subconscious mind becomes accessible - and suggestible.

This is the key word: suggestible.
When you're in hypnosis, suggestions can reach your subconscious directly. Not just any suggestions - we'll get to that in a moment - but empowering, transformational beliefs that your conscious mind might have rejected.
"I am enough."
Your conscious mind might have said, "No you're not, remember that time you failed?"
But your subconscious, in the hypnotic state, accepts it. Files it away. Begins to operate from it.
The Remarkable Power of Visualization and Suggestion
Your subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between a vividly imagined experience and a real one.
Think about that for a moment.
When you imagine biting into a lemon - really imagine it, see the juice, taste the sourness - your mouth starts to water. Your body responds to something that isn't real.
Athletes have used this for decades. They visualize the perfect performance, and their brain creates neural pathways as if they've actually done it. When the real moment comes, their body knows what to do.
This is the power we harness in hypnotherapy.
Through guided visualization and carefully crafted suggestions, we create new experiences in your subconscious mind. We show it new possibilities. New beliefs. New ways of being.
And your brain believes it. It creates the neural pathways. It starts operating from this new truth.
It's almost like the placebo effect - except instead of a sugar pill, we're using the extraordinary power of your own mind. You tell your mind it can do something, you show it through visualization and suggestion, and as long as you believe it (and your subconscious does, in the hypnotic state), it manifests.
The thoughts, words, and mental pictures your hypnotherapist gives you during a session become your new internal programming. Your new operating system.
And that's when everything changes.
But Is Hypnosis Safe? The Morals and Beliefs Filter
Here's the question I get asked most: "Can someone make me do something I don't want to do?"
The answer is a resounding no.
Remember when I said hypnosis makes you "suggestible"? That doesn't mean you're a puppet. Your subconscious mind has a built-in filter based on your morals, values, and core beliefs.
If I tried to suggest during hypnosis that you should go to a shop and steal something, your subconscious would reject it immediately. Why? Because it goes against your morals. It contradicts who you are at your core.
Your subconscious only accepts suggestions that align with your authentic self and your wellbeing.
This is what makes hypnotherapy so safe - and so powerful. We're not overriding your personality or forcing change. We're helping you become more of who you truly are by removing the limiting beliefs and false programming that's been holding you back.

You're always in control. Always aware. You can open your eyes and end the session at any moment if you choose to.
The stage show hypnosis you see? Those people want to participate. They've volunteered. They're in an environment where acting silly feels safe and fun. Their subconscious accepts the suggestions because it aligns with their desire to entertain and be part of the show.
But therapeutic hypnosis? That's about accessing your deepest truth, your highest potential, and the beliefs that serve your growth. Your subconscious recognizes this and welcomes it.
Hypnosis is safe, natural, and incredibly impactful.
What Can Hypnosis Help With? (Spoiler: Almost Everything)
One of the most beautiful things about hypnotherapy is its versatility. Because we're working at the level of beliefs and subconscious programming, we can address virtually anything that's been created by the mind.
Mental and Emotional Challenges:
Confidence and self-esteem issues
Limiting beliefs and negative self-talk
Self-sabotage patterns
Procrastination and motivation blocks
Stress and overwhelm
Depression and low mood
Grief and loss
Past trauma resolution
Fears and Phobias:
Public speaking anxiety
Flying phobia
Social situations
Specific fears (spiders, heights, needles, etc.)
Performance anxiety
Habits and Behaviours:
Eating habits and relationship with food
Sugar addiction and cravings
Nail biting and skin picking
Sleep issues and insomnia
Smoking cessation
Performance Enhancement:
Interview skills and career confidence
Exam preparation and test anxiety
Sports performance
Creative blocks
Decision-making ability
Physical Ailments:
Chronic pain management
IBS and digestive issues
Headaches and migraines
Skin conditions linked to stress
Immune system support
The list genuinely goes on. If your mind has created the problem (or is making it worse), hypnotherapy can help resolve it.
This isn't just about "twin problems" - although yes, hypnotherapy is incredibly powerful for twin-specific challenges like identity fusion, codependency, and separation anxiety.
But maybe you're a twin who's also struggling with a sugar addiction. Or you have an important interview coming up. Or you want to finally overcome your fear of flying so you can travel.
Hypnotherapy can help with all of it.
Because at the root of all these challenges is a belief. A pattern. A subconscious program that's been running automatically. And once we access it, understand it, and transform it? The problem dissolves.
Quick Induction: You Don't Need Hours To Reach Hypnosis
Here's another myth that needs dismantling: hypnosis doesn't take forever to "sink in" or "drop into."
Films and old-fashioned hypnotherapy would have you believe you need to lie on a couch for an hour, slowly drifting deeper and deeper, counting down from 100...
That's not how modern hypnotherapy works.
Thanks to pioneers like Dave Elman and the techniques developed by experts like Marisa Peer and Gil Boyne, we now know that you can reach a deep hypnotic state in minutes - sometimes even seconds.
This is called quick or fast induction, and it's a game-changer.
Why? Because you don't need to spend half your session just "getting there." We can access your subconscious quickly, efficiently, and get straight to the transformational work.
In my sessions, clients are often surprised by how fast they drop into hypnosis. One moment we're talking, the next moment their body relaxes, their breathing deepens, and they're there - in that focused, internal state where the real work happens.
It doesn't feel dramatic. It feels natural. Like slipping into a daydream or the moments just before you fall asleep- aware, but deeply relaxed. Present, but turned inward.
And from that state, transformation happens rapidly.
My Personal "Aha" Moment: When I Fell In Love With Hypnosis
I need to share something with you. A moment that changed everything for me.
When I first began my hypnotherapy training, I was curious but slightly sceptical. I understood the theory. I'd read the research. But I hadn't experienced it myself yet.
Then came my first training session where I was the subject.
My trainer began the induction. I felt my body relax, my breathing deepen. I was aware of everything - her voice, the room, my thoughts. But I was also... somewhere else. Somewhere inward.
And then she said, "Now, try to open your eyes."
I tried.
And I couldn't.
Not because she was controlling me. Not because I'd lost the ability. But because my body, my subconscious, had accepted the suggestion so completely that my eyes simply stayed closed. It felt so natural, so right, that opening them felt impossible in that moment.
That was my "aha" moment.
That was when it all started to fall into place. When I realized: this is real. The mind genuinely can be shaped, informed, and moulded by our thoughts and suggestions. The subconscious isn't just a theory - it's a tangible, accessible, transformable force.
I fell in love with hypnotherapy in that moment.

And now? When I do my own self-hypnosis work and my eyes stay closed, it makes my soul smile. Because I know what's happening: I'm sinking, falling, dropping into the core being of who I am. I'm doing internal work to enhance my life. I'm closing my eyes to the outside world so I can open them internally - to see, understand, and transform the beliefs and patterns that shape my reality.
That's the magic of hypnosis.
And if you're reading this thinking, "I want to experience that for myself" - that subtle pull, that curiosity, that little voice saying, "Maybe this is for me..."
That's your subconscious already leaning toward change. Already opening to possibility.
Self-Hypnosis: Your Gateway to Transformation
Here's something powerful I want you to know: you don't have to wait for a full session with me to experience hypnosis.
I can teach you self-hypnosis - a technique you can use anytime, anywhere, to access that calm, focused, internal state.
Think of self-hypnosis as dipping your toes into the water. It's a beginner-friendly way to experience what hypnosis feels like, how your body responds, and the sense of peace and clarity it brings.

But it's more than just an introduction. Self-hypnosis is a powerful tool in its own right.
When you learn self-hypnosis, you learn how to:
Ground yourself when life feels overwhelming
Turn your thoughts inward instead of being constantly pulled by the busy outside world
Slow down your mind and find moments of deep calm
Plant empowering affirmations directly into your subconscious
Enhance the work we do together by reinforcing new beliefs daily
This is what makes self-hypnosis so valuable: it's a form of relaxation, yes. But it's also a tool for ongoing transformation.
The Power of Affirmations in Hypnosis
Affirmations on their own can be helpful. Repeating "I am confident" or "I am worthy" throughout your day plants seeds.
But affirmations in a hypnotic state? That's when they take root.
When your conscious mind is relaxed and your subconscious is open and receptive, affirmations bypass all the usual resistance. They land deeper. They stick.
Combined with visualization - seeing yourself as confident, feeling what that feels like, experiencing it as if it's already true - you're not just hoping for change. You're creating the neural pathways for it.
This is what I teach in self-hypnosis sessions. How to reach that receptive state on your own. How to craft affirmations that resonate with your subconscious. How to visualize in a way that makes your brain believe it's real.
And here's the beautiful part: once you learn self-hypnosis, you can use it before listening to any of my personalized recordings. It enhances everything. The suggestions I've recorded for you sink even deeper, work even faster, create even more profound results.
Hypnosis as Relaxation and Realignment
We live in a world that demands we look outward constantly. Social media. News. Work. Other people's opinions. Endless notifications and distractions.
It's exhausting.
Hypnosis offers something radical: the permission to turn inward.
Even if you never address a specific "problem" in hypnosis, the act of regularly reaching that deeply relaxed, internally focused state is transformative in itself.
It's a major step toward:
Slowing down your thoughts instead of being overwhelmed by mental chatter
Rebalancing your nervous system instead of living in constant fight-or-flight
Aligning with your authentic self instead of performing for the outside world
Finding stillness in a world that never stops moving
In this way, hypnosis becomes a practice. A ritual. A way of coming home to yourself.
Some of my clients describe their hypnosis sessions as the most relaxed they've felt in years - maybe ever. That deep, restful state where the body releases tension it's been holding for decades. Where the mind finally gets to rest.
That alone is worth experiencing.
But when you combine that deep relaxation with the transformational power of accessing your subconscious? When you're not just resting, but also rewiring?
That's when hypnosis becomes truly life-changing.
What Happens in a Full Session With Me
Self-hypnosis is powerful. It's a gateway. It's a tool you'll use for life.
But a full hypnotherapy session with me? That's where we go deeper. That's where we use additional techniques and tools to create the profound, lasting transformation you're seeking.
In a full session, we don't just relax and affirm. We:
Investigate: We use regression techniques to find the root cause of your challenge. Where did this belief start? What experience created this pattern? Your subconscious knows, and it will show us.
Understand: We look at those moments with adult eyes. We see them for what they really were, not what you decided they meant as a child. This understanding alone often dissolves the emotional charge.
Transform: We reframe those experiences. We install new, empowering beliefs. We use visualization, suggestion, and specific therapeutic techniques to rewire your subconscious programming.
Reinforce: You receive a personalized recording to listen to for 21 days. This repetition strengthens the new neural pathways until the empowering beliefs become your new automatic response.
The combination of quick induction + deep therapeutic work + personalized reinforcement is what makes hypnotherapy so effective. Often in just 1-3 sessions, clients experience shifts that years of traditional talk therapy didn't achieve.
Not because talk therapy isn't valuable. But because we're working at a different level - the subconscious level where beliefs live and change happens.
The Invitation: Experience Hypnosis For Yourself
If you've read this far, something inside you is curious. Intrigued. Maybe even excited.
That's your subconscious speaking. That's the part of you that knows there's more available to you than what you're currently experiencing.
Hypnosis isn't just for people with "serious problems." It's for anyone who wants to become more of who they truly are. Anyone who wants to remove the blocks, transform the beliefs, and step into their full potential.
Maybe you're a twin struggling with identity or codependency. Maybe you're someone dealing with anxiety, low confidence, or self-sabotage. Maybe you have a sugar addiction, a fear of public speaking, or interview nerves.
Maybe you're just curious about what it feels like to close your eyes and open them internally. To see yourself clearly. To access that vast library of your subconscious and discover what's been running your life on autopilot.
Whatever brought you here, you're welcome.
Here's what I'm inviting you to do:
[Book a Discovery Call] - Let's talk about what you're experiencing and how hypnotherapy can help. No pressure. Just exploration.
[Learn Self-Hypnosis] - Before your full session (or on its own), I'll teach you self-hypnosis techniques you can use immediately. This is your gateway to experiencing hypnosis in a safe, gentle, empowering way.
[Book a Full Session] - Ready to go deeper? To find the root cause, transform the beliefs, and create lasting change? Let's do the transformational work together.
And if you've already worked with me and have personalized recordings, learning self-hypnosis will enhance their impact tenfold. You'll reach that receptive state before listening, allowing my suggestions to sink even deeper and work even faster.
Closing Your Eyes to Open Them Internally
Hypnosis is one of the most profound tools for transformation I've ever encountered - both personally and professionally.
It's not magic, but it feels magical when you experience your limiting beliefs dissolve in a single session. When you realize you're no longer afraid of something that terrified you for years. When you wake up one morning and notice you're making different choices, thinking different thoughts, being different - and it feels completely natural.
That's the power of working with your subconscious mind. Of closing your eyes to the noise of the outside world so you can finally open them internally - to see yourself clearly, understand yourself deeply, and transform yourself completely.
Whether you're dealing with twin-specific challenges or simply want to upgrade your beliefs, overcome a fear, break a habit, or step into the most confident, authentic version of yourself...
Hypnosis can help you get there.
And I'd be honoured to guide you on that journey.
Ready to experience what happens when you close your eyes - so you can finally open them internally?
Your subconscious is already saying yes. Now it's time for your conscious mind to take the first step.
FAQs About Hypnosis
Q: Will I remember what happens in the session?
A: Yes! You're not asleep or unconscious. You'll be aware of everything - my voice, the room, your thoughts. You might feel deeply relaxed (some clients describe it as the most relaxed they've ever been), but you'll remember the experience. Some details might feel dreamlike afterward, but the important insights and transformations will be clear.
Q: What if I can't be hypnotized?
A: If you can daydream, get absorbed in a film, or drive somewhere and not remember the journey, you can be hypnotized. It's a natural state we all experience daily. The only people who can't be hypnotized are those who actively resist it or genuinely don't want to do it. If you're willing and open, it will work.
Q: How long does a session last?
A: Full sessions typically last 1.5-2 hours. This includes time to discuss what you want to work on, the hypnosis itself (including quick induction and deep therapeutic work), and time afterward to process the experience. Self hypnosis teaching sessions are shorter, usually around 45 minutes to an hour.
Q: Is hypnosis dangerous?
A: Not at all. Hypnosis is completely safe. You're always in control and can open your eyes and end the session at any moment. Your subconscious has a built-in safety filter - it won't accept suggestions that go against your morals or core values. The worst thing that could happen is you simply don't enter hypnosis, or you open your eyes because you're uncomfortable. There's no risk of getting "stuck" in hypnosis - you'll naturally emerge if I stopped speaking.
Q: Can hypnosis work online, or does it have to be in person?
A: Hypnosis works beautifully online! As long as you can hear my voice clearly and you're in a comfortable, private space, the hypnotic state is just as deep and effective online as in person. Many clients actually prefer online sessions because they're already in their own safe space, which helps them relax even more.
Q: How many sessions will I need?
A: This varies by person and what you're working on. Many clients experience profound shifts in just 1-3 sessions. Some challenges resolve completely in a single session, while others benefit from a few sessions to address different layers or aspects of the issue. We'll discuss this during your discovery call based on your specific situation.
Q: What's the difference between self-hypnosis and a full session?
A: Self-hypnosis is a wonderful tool for relaxation, grounding, and reinforcing positive beliefs. It's something you can do on your own, anytime. A full session with me goes much deeper - we use regression to find root causes, therapeutic techniques to transform beliefs, and I create a personalized recording specifically for your subconscious. Think of self-hypnosis as daily maintenance, and full sessions as deep transformational work.
Ready to discover the extraordinary power of your own mind? Your transformation begins the moment you decide to look inward.

Thank you again for taking the time out to read this.



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